I dedicate this prayer
to all mothers around the world:
So long as space
remains,
So long as sentient
beings remain,
I will remain, In order
to help,
in order to serve,
In order to make my own
contribution
His Holiness the Dalai
Lama describes this as his favorite prayer because in a non-secular and ethical
way it embodies the compassionate attitude. Without this underlying intention
none of us could ever attain enlightenment.
In fact, we would not be here on this planet, in this universe if it had not been for the great hardships our mother endured to give us birth, who sacrificed herself and tenderly nurtured us so that we might live in this rare and precious human life, and hopefully not waste this precious opportunity to contribute to the welfare of all sentient beings, as well as to care for the boundless gifts given to us from our Mother Earth!
Although Mother’s Day
has recently passed, it is never too late to celebrate our mothers, since
without them we could never develop love and compassion for each other.
The great masters in
Tibetan Buddhism, who have themselves attained realization of the ultimate true
nature, have used a variety of images in an attempt to describe the
indescribable, that which underlies the great feminine archetypal architect,
existing in all faiths from which all sentient beings come into the world.
Tara is the great mother
goddess, or “the Great Mother,” that embodies compassion, wisdom, emptiness or
the enlightened mind.
Most of us live in an
obscure mind unaware of our original nature. And, at all levels, from Hinayana
Buddhism through Vajrayana, the Buddha used the language of the Great Mother to
identify our ultimate true nature.
In fact, at the core of
all the teachings of the Buddhas it is the nature of the Mother that underlies
the Dharma. This feminine archetype is given several different titles, such as
“Mother of all the Buddhas” and “Mother of all Samsara and Nirvana.”
Why did the Buddha describe this ultimate nature as “Mother” ?
Ultimate nature is a
correct description for it because it is Mother who gives us birth, who is the
spark necessary to develop our own enlightened mind. Paradoxically, (I hope all
of you men are reading this!) it was the Buddha (a male) who pointed out to all
those wandering in samsara lost and confused, the way back home and
reintroduced seekers “to our own true Mother.”
It is said that in our
reintroduction to our own true Mother, “in that moment, we can jump right into
her lap without any fear, we’ll reach the highest joy, peace, and realization:
the security of the enlightened state.”
Furthermore, in the
teachings of the Prajnaparamita, or “Perfection of Wisdom,” the Buddha taught
that “those who wish to reach the state of Bodhisattvas, (courageous ones with
concern for all living beings,) should learn the Mother Prajnaparamita…
Those who wish to reach
the state of Buddhas, totally enlightened, free from all obscurations and ego
clinging, fully awakened and heroic, should also realize the Mother Nature and
practice the “Prajnaparamita.”
Therefore, whatever
level we may be on with our aspiration and accomplishment in our spiritual
work, the necessary practice “to attain our goal will be the same.” The reader
can obtain one version of the Heart Sutra by Thich Nhat Hanh.
Tara emanates as needed
in her various forms, reaching out to every sentient being. Tara’s purpose is
to help and guide all living beings, not excluded to special interest groups.
Therefore, she aids
everyone; included are animals, insects and other beings unseen by the physical
eye. Since Tara abides beyond boundaries and limitations, one cannot identify
exactly where she may appear or not. Thus, she is easily accessible to every
living being everywhere. Allow me to end with an illustration of this feminine
principle.
One day, I am ashamed to
say, the Tara in my life, my spouse, pointed out to me my lack of kindness and
my selfishness in not allowing a person to park in the space behind us. I admit
that I was grumpy, fatigued and temporarily lost my mind, only to regain it
hours later by giving up my parking space to someone in need one hour before I
had to leave.
It’s amazing what
acknowledging our faults and engaging in reparation can do to humble the human
heart, and helps us to bring loving kindness to our self by accepting where we
are right on the spot! The feminine principle hold nothing back when it is time
to soften, to reflect, inquire and renew our connection to our own heart and to
the heart of those we interact with.
The opportunities for
practicing the path of Mother-Compassion are endless! I bow to the Mother of
All Buddhas---Om gate’ gate’ paragata, parasamgata bodi Swaha (gone, gone, gone
beyond even the beyond into full enlightenment, so be it).
May we rest our
awareness in the state of sublime abiding by cherishing all beings with a
boundless heart!
In loving kindness.
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Sal Barba, Ph.D.
Focusing-Oriented Psychotherapist
Focusing Trainer