Chances are, not many
of us would buy a book with the title, How I Achieved Mediocrity or How I got to be less than the Best or How to be Average.
We all like to think
we are striving for excellence. The truth of the matter is that many of us are
stuck in the land of mediocrity, living well below our potential. Surely we are
not making the most of the gifts and talents God has given us.
It was William James
who said, "Compared with what we ought to be, we are only half awake. Our
fires are damped, our drafts are checked. We are making use of only a small
part of our possible mental and physical resource”.
Johann Sebastian Bach
was one of the world’s greatest composers. At the top of each music manuscript
Bach printed the Latin phrase: Soli Dei Gloria – Solely to the Glory of
God.
We may not be artistic
geniuses like Bach, but there ought to be some sense in whi
ch we are able to
write above our every endeavor, our every work: Soli Dei Gloria! We honor God when we make the most of the
gifts God has given us, pursuing excellence in all we do.
It is important to
realize that the pursuit of excellence is not about achieving perfection. Edwin
Bliss once said, ”The pursuit of excellence is gratifying and healthy. The
pursuit of perfection is frustrating, neurotic, and a terrible waste of time.”
The perfectionist is
going to drive himself or herself nuts, for it simply is not achievable.
Perfectionists need to relax and treat themselves with more grace.
Nor is the pursuit of
excellence an attempt to be better than everybody else. It is not a quest for
superiority. When we think of excellence, it seems we always want to compare
ourselves with others. However, there will always be someone better than us in
our area of giftedness.
There will always
someone who is smarter than us, a better student than us, a better speaker, a
better athlete, a better musician, a more disciplined worker - you name it. If
that is our standard of excellence – being better than anyone else – we might
as well quit now, for someone will come along who will outshine us every time.
Excellence is not
about being better than others, but it’s about being a better person than we
were the day before.
Achieving excellence
requires a worthy goal. Perhaps it is to be the best teacher we can be, or the
best doctor, or the best manager or the best engineer, or the best father or
mother. Perhaps we are aware that we have some natural talent and desire to
become an accomplished musician or painter or athlete.
When setting goals,
aim high; risk a little and move out to do those things you believe God has
called you to do. Try new things. Undertake new projects. Stretch yourself
beyond your self-imposed limitations. Find your passion and pursue it.
I fear we think too
little of ourselves. We tend to sell ourselves short. We downplay our gifts. We
focus on our limitations and think of all the reasons why we cannot succeed in
this or that task or endeavor. We focus on the obstacles rather than the
opportunities. We would do much better to give up our small ambitions and dare
to do great things for God, for God is able to do far more abundantly than all
that we can ask or think.
Excellence always
comes with a price tag in terms of blood, sweat and tears. A Harvard
psychiatrist says, ”Most people in the world can be divided into two
groups. There is the minority, which is challenged by opportunity and is
willing to work hard to achieve something, and the majority, which
really does not care all that much.”#
Are we willing to do what it takes to grow into our God-given potential, as
hard as it may be?
A wise man once said,
”Whatever your hand finds it to do, do it with all your might" [Ecclesiastes 9:10]. In other words, give it your
best shot. That’s all God asks of you. Whatever you do, do it to the
glory of God.
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Sal Barba, Ph.D.
Focusing-Oriented Psychotherapist
Focusing Trainer