I was well into writing this column when the earthquake in
Haiti struck. I originally thought to write about the season of Epiphany and
the Wise Men who came to see the Christ Child.
I was going to talk about the Christmas lights on homes as
an outward sign of our inward desire to have more light, especially here in
this grey and northern climate. I was writing about our longing for hope.
Then the earthquake hit, and what I was saying seemed trite
in the face of the devastation the people on that small Caribbean island are
facing.
How do we respond to such devastation? How do we take it in,
especially as there are still so many who are still trying to sort out the
devastation from Hurricane Katrina, the attacks on 9/11, the wars in
Afghanistan and Iraq.
My son is working as a teacher in New Orleans, and he has
many stories about the prevalent post-traumatic stress that he sees on a daily
basis in his students and their families – this on top of their extreme
poverty.
When one’s home, livelihood, whole life is completely
destroyed by hurricane or earthquake, there is no quick fix. If you have ever
had a fire destroy your home, or lived through losing all your possessions in a
flood, you know something about this.
What is our response in the face of such devastation?
President Obama has promised over $1 million in aid. People want to go down
physically to help. In addition to the relief workers, money is starting to
flow in from all over the world.
But what is our real response? Not just how we take action,
what happens within ourselves and our souls?
There has been so much devastation in the past 10 years,
both natural and manmade, that it is too easy to become numb, to turn our heads
away and imagine that it all goes away quickly. After all, we can simply change
the channel and watch some dumb TV show and forget all about Haiti.
On the other hand, it is equally possible to spiral into
apocalyptic anxiety, such as that espoused by some that a kind of divine wrath
was being taken out on Haiti because of their “sinful” way of living. Or the
kind of weird anxiety that is currently being sensationalized through movies
such as 2012.
I completely reject the notion that a God who created us in
love and for love would torture us. As a Christian, I believe in my soul and
bones that Jesus Christ demonstrated that God instead calls forth from us
compassion and reveals hope. I believe that God’s justice is revealed in how we
respond to each other.
So I think that we have a better, completely different way
to respond to Haiti – and to any other tragedy that strikes in our lives. Not
only do we offer our support, send our dollars as we can, maybe even make a
mission trip when and where it is appropriate, but we allow this event, and
others like it, to transform our souls.
Rather than become numb, we allow ourselves to see and know
the devastation. We grieve, openly, for the loss of lives and livelihood, and
we rejoice for the lives saved. In other words, we respond, knowing that our
lives are linked with the lives of those who have been destroyed.
We take action knowing our souls are connected to each other
– as others experience loss and hope, grief, pain and survival, so do we.
In the Christian scriptures, Paul writes a letter to the
people of Corinth. In it he says that we are all part of the same body. The
foot cannot say it is not part of the body, nor can the eye say to the hand
that it has no need of it.
All parts of the body are necessary (1 Corinthians 12). It
is in bearing one another’s burdens that we are transformed. Bearing burdens
with each other is where we experience hope, and love.
This is ultimately the story about Jesus, he who bore our
burdens to the cross and redeemed them in the resurrection.
In this season after Christmas, what the Christian church
calls the season of Epiphany, sharing burdens together is ultimately the story
about Epiphany and the Wise Men who came from the East to be part of the gift
of the Son of God.
I am proud of my congregation and all of you who have given
as much as you can to stand with and help the people Haiti.
And I am full of hope that we have the courage to continue
to be with the people of Haiti, and New Orleans, and the Sudan, and in our own
neighborhoods, helping to bear one another’s burdens, being the people God
created us to be.
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Sal Barba, Ph.D.
Focusing-Oriented Psychotherapist
Focusing Trainer